Coach Tisha Speaks on Mastering Obstacles in Life

Monday, February 8, 2010

SELF-ESTEEM?


IT'S A BEAUTIFUL DAY IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD! It's Monday and I'm sure you all had a great time watching the SuperBowl! I really enjoyed the wonderful food we had :). This is now the 2nd month of the year to win 2010! Due to my previous limited thinking, I believed that the only negative people in the world were those who assaulted your vision, dream, self worth. While that is the obvious, we must be aware of different type of negative energy depleters. Sometimes we focus on the obvious while the less than obvious is causing great distress and destruction. We should surround ourselves with highly positive and energetic people. People full of life, vision, accomplishments, etc. What negatives am I speaking of...low self-esteem and low self-confidence. Sure, you get a great idea and sure you are confident that it will work, but then YOU become your inner critic and began to shoot down your self-esteem. This is a little different than making excuses because you are flat out lazy. In this case, you began to speak about how your capabilities don't amount up to the requirements. Excuses such as...you might not have all the money at this time. Other excuses are... I tried this before and I failed at it. What if people laugh at me...and the list goes on. You validate WHY you should not move forward. If you do move forward, it's with extreme caution because at the first sign of failure or defeat, you feel that you have a valid reason to quit. So the question remains, who benefits when you make an excuse to quit because YOU failed to deal with your low self esteem? This month, if you can think of one excuse why something can't be done, you can think of 100 as to why. Fill your mind with thoughts of accomplishment, not defeat. You can easily build your self-confidence by learning and taking ACTION! Identify the place of the excuse and began to attack it like a bear eating honey. Do your absolute best and remember, any excuse is a bad excuse. You have the capabilities to accomplish great things, so DO IT!

Please join us every Tuesday @ 7pm est for our Transformational Conference call! We have a blast! Myself, Shonta Prince, a dynamic speaker & special guests. You will expand your thinking beyond limitations and leave with action steps. Please call 712-432-0111 ext 901054# to join us.

Have a Winning Day!!!!
Tisha