Coach Tisha Speaks on Mastering Obstacles in Life

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Dismiss the LOSER Mentality!!!! GOOD BYE LOSER


Today is an exciting and awesome day! Everyday I wake up with great anticipation of the wonderful and marvelous things that God has in store for me. It is his will that I prosper and be in excellent health. It's God's will that we excel to great and marvelous heights. No more playing small. I am taking the attitude of the winner in to every aspect of my life this day! Today I will focus on releasing the loser mentality. What is a loser- a loser is defined as a person who has failed at a particular activity. The Loser mentality is one who believes that his success is not warranted or guaranteed before he even gets started. Have you ever applied to a job and maybe you had some skills but not all of them and you made up in your mind that they wouldn't hire you? Have you ever wanted to test drive a car out of your price range and before you even went on the lot you felt like, they would escort you off? Or perhaps, you had an interest in a particular person but before you spoke to them you felt confident a rejection would be first? Well, that's the loser mentality. You make up in your mind before you even get started that you have already failed. Set high mental expectations of your self. Why create an outcome before you even get started. Work on your confidence and believe in yourself. Maybe your credit score or salary won't allow you to purchase the car, but ask yourself, how can I make this a reality. Let's work on educating ourselves in the place of failure so that it now becomes a success. Failure only exist in one place and that's the mind. I want my confidence to soar like an eagle, so no failure here. My past is not a track record of my future successes. I decide today that I am a success in everything that I do. I refuse to be defeated or fail. I take on the mentality of a winner and I work to achieve great victories. Let's not be afraid to go for the gusto! You are a WINNER! Hey, it doesn't matter what people say about you, really.... are they qualified to talk? A great confidence builder is telling yourself that you are a winner and you are on a winning team. Walk with your back straight and your head held high. Do not walk with your head hung or your face looking at the ground. It does not matter if you have been bankrupt, to jail, teenage mother, broke or just plain crazy. Hold your head up! I have been in situations where I was just embarrassed and guess what, I held my head up. I am grateful for family instilling in me that I should always be confident and hold your head up. So in the words of Tupac, rest in peace my brother, keep your head up!!! Drop that loser mentality, I can't say it enough, you are a WINNER... SHOUT...I WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!